The mystical world of illusion and fantasies. Many know they exist, few know where and why. But all the experts agree that sexual fantasies are important, powerful and pervasive.
And no matter who you are, your beliefs, your age, political affiliation or your idiosyncrasies… We all have sexual desires and fantasies.
Your fantasies are always with you, playing hide-and-seek with your perceived realities, whispering wild ideas in your inner ear, showing movies in your mind, stirring your passions mysterious, yet so powerfully. If you are imprisoned in any way—by your work, your family, your education, your religion, your government—your fantasies become your freedom. Sometimes your ability to fantasize is the only freedom you have.
Where does fantasy end and reality begin? The English philosopher John Richter said, “Fantasy rules over two-thirds of the universe, the past and the future, while reality is confined to the present.”
Today we will be getting a look at the most common fantasies for men
Threesomes: If you make a survey and ask 100 heterosexual men, “What could be better than one woman?” The answer will be 99.99999% of the time, “Two”. That’s why Chances are good that dreaming about a threesome (or, as it’s called in French, ménage à trois) is on the list of most men’s sexual desires.
Double your pleasure, double your fun; sex with two lovers is more fun than one! The threesome is the most common sexual fantasy. It’s often associated with the male erotic imagination, and it’s certainly one of the most widespread male fantasies, invoking images of double-wives patriarchs and the pleasures of the harem.
I am yours. Submission: Many men enjoy sexual fantasies in which the man is more of a passive player. A lot of men enjoy being submissive, It runs contrary to the way they experience their lives outside of the bedroom. They enjoy being tied up, teased, tantalized, and spanked.
Men and women probably fantasize with equal passion about sexual surrender. But it’s still more socially acceptable for women (even feminist women) than it is for men, so men more often combine feelings of humiliation with submission. Politically incorrect as it may be, often male submission fantasies involve being dressed up in traditional, sensuous or “slutty” women’s clothes and called derogatory female names. This may or may not overlap with cross-dressing or transgender fantasies.
Role Play: For some, a strong men’s sexual fantasy involves dressing up and playing out new roles and story lines. Heterosexual men might favor the character parts of strong men encountering attractive women.
Experts said “homosexual or bisexual men might have more freedom to play in this arena. “Gay men have a much broader palate,” they said. “There is a gay culture that supports sexual fantasy.” Dressing in drag or in costume and being willing to play different roles can lead to some exciting outcomes.
Watching Sex: Another common fantasy combo is seeing and being seen. Many men are titillated by watching women pleasure other women and many other sexual encounters. Voyeurism in general is near the top of the list of men’s sexual fantasies. It can be combined with other fantasies, including watching your significant other with another sexual partner or masturbating to orgasm, or even discovering other people in flagrante delicto.
Sex with a Celebrity: Most men have a staple of celebrities that are high on their list of fantasies. This list seems to be the most popular at the moment: Scarlett Johansson, Jennifer Aniston, Sophia Vergara, Jessica Alba, Mila Kunis, Angelina Jolie, Kate Upton, Salma Hayek, Jennifer Lawrence and Kate Beckinsale. Most couples give one another a “free pass” whereby if either person has an opportunity to have sex with the top celebrity on their list, they will be instantly forgiven by the other.
Exhibitionism: The back seat of the car, the elevator, the men’s bathroom, in a park, personal sex videos – these are all common places for exhibition sex to take place. If you don’t have a partner who enjoys any of this, but think you may then this fantasy is for you. Are you sitting in the back booth of a dark cocktail lounge when this hottie strolls over, slides into the seat next to you and quickly ducks beneath the tablecloth to give you a surprise you’ll never forget? People are all around and there is the danger of getting caught if you show any expression on your face at all, so you just sit there quietly trying to contain yourself. If you like the sound of that, then this fantasy is for you.
Bondage: Although the reality of bondage isn’t for everyone, the fantasy of being in total control or being controlled is one shared by most men. The rules of bondage come in the way of creating a safe word to make sure your partner knows when enough is enough. Those who are into bondage have a wide array of options, in terms of sexual paraphernalia, triggers and goals. According to a Men’s Health poll, about 50 percent of the male respondents like to be tied up. We’re guessing the other 50 percent likes to keep this one in the fantasy realm, particularly after seeing movies of men being handcuffed to bedposts and not released until the hotel maid comes in to clean.
Well, as you can see, the spectrum is deep, large and in every direction, and this is only a few of the most common fantasies.. The list is really huge!.
Sexual fantasies can be keys that unlock the doors of your repressed personal history…Do you agree?.. I don’t!
Have fun and always enjoy your life!