The term “fetishism” was coined in the late 1800s. It originates from the Portuguese word feitico, which means “obsessive fascination”. There is a degree of fetishistic arousal in most normal individuals who find particular bodily features attractive. However, fetishistic arousal is generally considered a problem when it interferes with normal sexual or social functioning and where sexual arousal is impossible without the fetish object.
Fetishes, like almost everything, have evolved and changed, and although many are still on the list of fetishes (from the clinical point of view) some are not considered scandalous or dark, much less anyone (sane) would think going to therapy. Food and sex, group sex, double penetration, fetish clothing, whip, plugs, threesomes etc. Are so common, that they are almost part of our daily Lifestyle! For many couples are normal sex practices!
Like we stated before, there are the semi-“normative” things you likely already know about—feet, dominant/submissive play, regular old role play, et cetera—and then there are…Others. Here, the strangest fetishes we managed to uncover.
Statues that excite us
Agalmatophilia: Statue Love, have you ever hear about motorists who stick a mannequin in the front seat just so they can sneak their way into the carpool lane? Well, some people statues not in the car, but in the bedroom. People with statue love, or agalmatophilia, may also be attracted to a doll or mannequin. Essentially, it is a form of sexual attraction to statues (usually, but not exclusively nudes), and possibly lifelike mannequins and dolls as well. This fetish also crosses over into a transformation fetishism in the form of fantasies about people transformed into any of those objects. For many, the idea of immobility or loss of control is arousing. There are also fantasies about paralysis which sometimes cross over into hypnofetishism and robot fetishism. Statuephilia has a small but highly devoted community. In fact, a number of famous art photographers extensively featured sexualized life-sized dolls in their work, such as: Hans Bellmer, Bernard Faucon, Helmut Newton, Morton Bartlett, Katan Amano, Kishin Shinoyama, and Ryoichi Yoshida. Uyyy Sacryyyyy
Wig: object of desire
Do you know the aphrodisiac properties of the wigs? Alain Gaudey tells the story of a man who was attracted only by his wife, when she wore a wig of long hair. Apparently the hairpiece alone was effective for twenty days and had to be changed after this period.
Some people like to dress up like animals, calling themselves “furries” or “plushies” and seeking out like-minded individuals. This fetish is known as ursusagalmatophilia, and it’s surprisingly popular. “There is a big ‘furry scene,’ and it seems to be based on people who like to anthropomorphize animals and ascribe them with human qualities, generally cute qualities,” says Dr. Ian Kerner, a sex therapist in New York City. Ursusagalmatophilia is distinct from zoophilia, which involves sexual attraction to real animals.
Salirophilia: I Like It Dirty
Showering before sex maybe the routine for some people. Others like the idea of getting dirty during sex – literally – or making their partner dirty. This fetish is called salirophilia. It is a sexual arousal gained from in some way dirtying or messing up a partner. The partner is usually attractive and the sexual gratification arises from actions such as covering them in filth, messing their hair or tearing their clothing. Generally, no violence is involved.
Formicophilia – Aroused By Being Covered In Insects
As weird and disturbing as the idea may be, it’s far from uncommon for people to have sex with animals – bestiality is as old as the hills and is legal in some places – others even have bestiality brothels (which animals are on the menu is anyone’s guess).
Formicophilia is probably a less harmful sexual fetish (to animals, at least) but it’s without a doubt more unusual. The formicophiliac derives sexual pleasure and arousal from crawling insects over their body, sometimes deriving additional pleasure when the aforementioned creepy crawlies give them the occasional bite.
Mysophilia – Turned On By Rotting Flesh
When most people get into bed the only flesh, they’re interested in seeing, touching and perhaps tasting is that of their partner. Warm, human and most likely living flesh (unless they’re a necrophilia, but that doesn’t bear thinking about). Not so for the mysophiliac, who prefers their flesh dead and rotting.
Mysophiliacs aren’t necessarily particular about the source of the rotting flesh which gets them going – it could be the rotting carcass of road kill stinking in the heat of the sun on the side of the highway or the flesh of a human being (although where they’d acquire that legally is anyone’s guess). Whatever kind of meat it is, the more decayed and smellier the better.
Psychologist Sigmund Freud often talked about the association between sex and death, referring to the attached principles as Eros and Thanatos. Perhaps the mysophiliac is just taking Freud’s theories to their extreme conclusion.
Hematolagnia: Vampire Sex
A fetish known as hematolagnia involves using or even drinking blood in a sexual way (or having erotic thoughts about blood). “With the popularity of ‘Twilight,’ I’ve seen an increase in vampire fantasies and biting,” says Dr. Ian Kerner, a New York sex therapist. “But not blood-drinking,” he adds. Thank goodness.
Anililagnia – Really?
Arousal from or sexual desire for elderly women! This one looks like it would be weird right? This is actually one of the most common fetishes out there. What Anililagnia means is actually an attraction to older women. There are tons of guys who find older #women attractive and seek them out. So guys, if you have a thing for older girls, then Anililagnia is one of your fetishes!
Not to be confused with threesomes. Adultery occurs every day, but fetishized infidelity is a lot less common. A cuckold fetish occurs when a man becomes sexually aroused by the knowledge that his wife is having sex with another man. In some cases, this may involve him setting up the affair, but not being around while it occurs, but in other cases, he may watch or even join in. While much less common, the female version of this arrangement would be called a cuckquean fetish
So enjoy… We may be the generation that contribute the most to the psychological progress of human organisms, removing from the list, many forms of fetishism. We will be the generation libertine! Free of prejudice!
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