Nowadays, almost everything has a name, or at least one adjective. And we like to label everything around us. If it is we like to exercise, we are narcissists, if we like to eat, suffer from gluttony, if we really like sex, we are lustful, in the end, humanity today wants a definition for all!
And let’s be clear, having fetishes, does not make us a weird person (in most cases), and is that, what many people considered rare fetishes, are actually more common than what we think.
Let’s take a look at the definition of “fetish”:
A: An object of unreasonably excessive attention or reverence
B: Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become important for sexual gratification
In other words, It’s not something to be ashamed of or to hide.
Feet, Butts and or boobs, lingerie, voyeur, BDSM and a few more are more common that what many of us expect.
But what Your Secret fetishes really say about you? Let’s take a look at what Lindsay Tigar from askmen.com have to say.
If You’re into S&M Or Bondage: When it comes to tying folks up, exploring gagging and whipping, it all depends on which you’d rather be the one in control or the one surrendering to their partner. Being a dominant usually means that you might feel like you’re lacking control in some other part of your life: Maybe you don’t feel like you’re directing your own career path or your friends are usually taking the reins in conversations.
Alternatively, if you’re a submissive, you might need a break from always being the leader. More often than not, being a submissive is difficult for people because it requires complete trust and relaxation with your partner — something that you may need to work on outside of the bedroom, too.
If You Like Feet: Believe it or not, having a foot fetish is pretty common. Your feet are powerful sensors — in fact, almost every nerve in your entire body can be reached by applying different pressures to parts of your foot. If you like massaging feet, you likely enjoy bringing other people pleasure or making them happy, as you watch her body respond to wherever you touch.
If you’d rather get the foot massage, you may have underlying aches, pains and areas of your body that need attention. The sudden surge of sensation to different parts may actually be a signal that your annual physical is past-do. Once you get that checked out, you can fully enjoy tantalizing your every inch via your toes.
If You’re Really into Butts or Boobs: Different body parts can hold different meanings — and sexual value — to different people. You may be obsessed with your girlfriend’s round bottom while your friend may care more about his girl’s large rack.
Being particularly attracted to one part just means that you associate desire with an area of a woman’s body, and says that you likely are decisive about many things in your life: what you want to eat, what you want to do, what your career goals are, etc. Knowing what you like is a great quality and something that’ll serve you — and her — well in the bedroom.
If You Like to Spank or Be Spanked: Do you like spanking a big butt and you’re not ashamed of it? You’re definitely not alone – spanking is a very common turn on for both men and women, and for good reason. The part of your bottom that meets the back of the thigh is actually considered a pleasure zone, and when you have a sudden sensation — say a slap? — You stimulate your arousal.
Likely, if you’re into spanking, you are rather spontaneous, enjoy planning surprises or being surprised yourself, and you’re likely looking for new things to add to your bedroom repertoire all the time.
If You Like Getting It On in Public: Who doesn’t like the element of surprise? If having sex in places where you may or may not get caught really turns you on, you are likely one of two people: someone who really likes routine or hates it. If you’re used to doing the same thing day-in and day-out, your desire to have a romp in a park or in the car means that you’re craving some variety or maybe considering a big change in your life.
On the other hand, if you can’t stand doing the same thing, having sex publicly is probably something that feeds your adventurous spirit.
Lindsay Tigar can be more real! As you can see fetishes don’t always have to be a sickness or a psychological problem. A sexual fetish is not a disorder by definition, but it can reach that level if it causes intense, lasting distress. When it’s a disorder, it feels out of control. Just keep in mind, that If any of this fetishes are making your life hard, or you have the need to leave work or home to practice it, then you must look for help.
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